The Empty Suitcase

Overseeing coconut distribution.

Holding hands, leading.

Sweet, tender.

I did not know Bubbles before we left for the trip. He was one of the Ben's.

Now I know him as the father in AM's pretend family (AM, James, Caroline, Bubbles) and the protector of my daughter. All you mothers now know exactly what I am talking about. When we went there, I was always aware where AM was, especially in the airport as we were warned not to stray from our group given the risk of separation, missing flights, etc. And we were in a foreign country, not speaking the language. (Also in the DR!)

That first night, we could not figure out how to deadbolt the door so both of us lay awake a while despite the 0300 hour.

God really blessed this trip, loosening me from the bondage of the need to control the environment of my child, manufacturning that little crafted world of security and certainly. Idol worship huh? AM grew up probably 3 years or so.

As she got to know the kids on the trip, and they were so gracious to invite the younger kids back to their seats, kid with them, hang with them, get to know then, they all melded into one group. The pretend family formed.

As the wekk passed, it was such a joy as a mother to see laps full, little bodies embraced and held tightly, hands held. This is sweet Bubbles holding Samuel. Our youth were able to play like children, but lead like parents and men. Pray like men. Protect like men.

I did spend some time at the front desk where WiFi was available. So AM was without me, her designated buddy, quite frequently. But she was with Bubbles, et al. AM's and James' laughter echoed through the hotel valley. Sweet music.

Bubbles escorted AM through the market, and made sure she was not taken advantage of. He was present the last morning in the airport, standing next to her when she ordered breakfast. He was just there.

So not only did we get to see the "boys" really take on the role as men, but we got to see their hearts. Bubbles came home with practically no clothing. Shoes were left.

What qualities I know his mother rejoices over. Generosity. Leadership. Tenderness. Protector. God-fearing.